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An American in Hyderabad:

Life in India in the 1970s

What was India like before globalisation, call centres, and Bollywood?  This author moved to India in 1976 and lived there for a number of years.  This book describes what it was like to live, study, and marry there.

 Preface  
1. No Time, No Space, No Connection 1
2. How Did I Get Here? 3
3. First Glimpses of India 13
4. The Twin Cities 17
5. Seetha Devi 25
6. The Auto Ride 31
7. Finding a Guru 35
8. Shaik Dawood Khan 41
9. Settling In – The Kirtane Household 47
10. My Training 57
11. Names 65
12. What’s the Sex of a Banana? 69
13. My Frame of Mind 73
14. A typical Day 75
15. Sleep 85
16. Religion 87
17. Inter-Religious Competition 95
18. Picture Time 97
19. Caste and Community 99
20. Tabla Dukaan 103
21. Sickness 105
22. The Game of Customs 107
23. All Things Foreign 113
24. Meena Alexander 115
25. Respect, Etiquette, and Social Position 117
26. Hygiene 127
27. Grooming 133
28. Lalitha’s Doorstep 137
29. Grand Hotel 141
30. The Paanwalla 147
31. Sports 149
32. Hyderabadi Food 153
33. Alcohol 159
34. Tobacco 165
35. Drugs 169
36. The Hippie Trail 175
37. Films and Radio 177
38. Quietude of The Tree 183
39. Sauda Baazi 185
40. Politics of Disruption 187
41. Music Festival 191
42. Performance 201
43. Socialising 205
44. Communalism 209
45. Jume’raat Epiphany 215
46. Rameeza Bee 219
47. The Emergency 223
48. Indian National Identity 229
49. Relationships 235
50. A Chilly Morning 239
51. Ram’s Tea Party 243
52. Hindu Marriage 251
53. Finding a Wife 259
54. Horoscope 261
55. Dowry 265
56. Chandrakantha 269
57. Married Life 277
58. The Apostate 287
59. Pilgrimage 291
60. Goodbye to India 293
  Epilogue 295
  Glossary 301

Purchasing

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